President of MESA Attacks Minister Charles Griffith’s for ‘Sperm Donors’ Comment

The Chairman of the Mens’s Educational Support Association (MESA) responds to Minister Charles Griffith reference to men as ‘sperm donors’. The blogmaster understands the Nation Newspaper so fat has refused to print the submission.

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  • Geez bushy you come into some money so that your willing to put that tip in jeopardy, only kidding I couldn’t in good conscious let you walk the streets asking for change, or peddle that whacker of yours at bush hill.

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  • Freedom Crier”

    “COMPREHEND THIS …YOU ARE A MAN POSSESSED WITH THE SPIRIT OF CONTENTION WHILE ACCUSING ME AS A RACIST… THE ONE STANDING UP FOR THE BLACK RACE …”

    What the hell does the above nonsense….and by extension your entire September 23, 2018 11:32AM contribution….have to do with the present discussion?

    And where did I mention in any of my contributions that you’re a racist because you don’t like Obama?

    As I previously wrote…..it’s either YOUR comprehension skills are extremely poor……..you purposely interpret issues to suit your particular bias or agenda and then write irrelevant shiite……or you enjoy being silly…….OR ALL OF THE ABOVE.

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  • Its a Good Day May we Always be Thankful!

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  • Artax
    September 23, 2018 9:21 AM
    Bla Bla Bla…“then I understand your obsession with Trump and why you embrace his racist views.”

    So According to your LIMITED VIEWS THOSE WHO SUPPORT TRUMP MUST BE RACIST!!

    THE REAL ME TOO MOVEMENT!!

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  • Lawson,

    I know exactly what you mean. When you try to alert Bajans about the dangers of this corrupt form of multi-culturalism, you get silly people calling you a jingoist (David BU), racist (David BU) and RH (David BU) and lots more. But, there is an old Barbadian saying: hard ears you won’t hear, hard ears you will feel.
    The multi-cultural experiment has failed all over the world. Show me a nation where the various ethnic and religious groups live in total harmony and I show you a mirage. It works only when individuals know each other; collectively it has failed. Jihadists are a natural progression of multi-culturalism.

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  • Who steals my purse steals trash; ’tis something, nothing; ’twas mine, ’tis his, and has been slave to thousands; But he that filches from me my good name robs me of that which not enriches him and makes me poor indeed.

    Othello
    by: William Shakespeare

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  • SHOULD BE THE PRESIDENT FOR FALSE ACCUSERS

    The 19-year-old Long Island woman who filed a bogus rape complaint against two Sacred Heart University football players was sentenced Thursday to a year behind bars — and got a tongue lashing from the judge.

    https://nypost.com/2018/08/23/woman-who-made-false-rape-claim-sentenced-to-prison/?utm_source=facebook_sitebuttons&utm_medium=site%20buttons&utm_campaign=site%20buttons

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  • What is Parental Alienation?

    Parental Alienation (PA) or Hostile-Aggressive Parenting (HAP) is emotional child abuse that leads to Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), a psychological condition of the child. It is a tactic used by one parent (favored or alienating parent) to undermine or destroy the child’s love, attachment and relationship with the other (target) parent. It is seen frequently in custody disputes and has long-lasting and sometimes life-long effects. Research indicates that children with PAS have problems with their own relationships as adults and, when they become parents themselves, they repeat the alienating behavior learned as a child with their own children. It becomes a cycle of psychological child abuse.

    More information on the definition, symptoms and examples of Parental Alienation or Hostile-Aggressive Parenting may be found at this link: Parental Alienation Awareness Organization.

    Eight Symptoms of Parental Alienation
    Campaign of denigration (the child is turned against the other parent by bad-mouthing, criticism, negative comments regarding the other parent; the child is put in a position where they feel that they must choose between their parents and the child must choose a side in order to get out of being put in the middle)
    Weak, frivolous, or absurd rationalizations for the deprecation (the child’s reason for suddenly not wanting contact with the other parent is trivial, such as they have to eat healthy food, clean their room, etc.)
    Lack of ambivalence (normally, a child is ambivalent toward their parents; when alienated the child views one parent as all good and the other as all bad)

    The “independent thinker” phenomenon (the child comes to believe that their opinions about the other parent are their own beliefs and not that of the Alienating Parent; that they were not coached, told what to say, etc.)
    Reflexive support of the alienating parent in the parental conflict (the child takes the side of the alienating parent in all cases and argues in their support and never defends or sides with the Targeted Parent)
    Absence of guilt over cruelty to and/or exploitation of the alienated parent (the child has no empathy or compassion toward the target parent)

    Presence of borrowed scenarios (child makes up stories and incidents where the targeted parent is the villain)
    Spread of the animosity to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent (not only is the child alienated from the target parent, but also from that parent’s extended family – grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc.)
    The eight symptoms of Parental Alienation were originally constructed by Dr. Richard A. Gardner and have been reported, discussed and corroborated by a number of experts in the field including Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D., Robert A. Evans, Ph.D., J. Michael Bone, Ph.D., and Douglas C. Darnall, Ph.D.

    Seventeen Behaviors of Alienating Parents

    Badmouthing the other parent
    Limiting Contact between the child and the other parent
    Interfering with communication between the child and the other parent
    Interfering with symbolic communication (no pictures or mention of the other parent in favored parent home)
    Withdrawal of love and approval
    Telling the child that the other parent does not love him or her
    Forcing the child to choose between parents
    Telling the child that the other parent is dangerous
    Confiding in the child
    Telling the child that the other parent is dangerous
    Confiding in the child
    Forcing the child to reject the other parent
    Asking the child to spy on the other parent
    Ask child to keep secrets from the other parent
    Referring to the other parent by his or her first name and encouraging the child to do the same
    Referring to a stepparent/new significant other as “mom” or “dad” and encouraging the child to do the same
    Withholding medical, academic, or other important information from the other parent and not including that parent’s contact information on relevant documents
    Changing the child’s name to eliminate the association with the other parent
    Undermining the authority of the target (other) parent and cultivating dependency on the favored parent

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  • Kammie,
    The principle underlying all family courts – no matter the jurisdiction – is child, mother, father. The bias is always in favour of the mother, after the interest of the child, so much so that if a father has custody then it can safely be assumed the mother has done something terribly wrong.. Both parents should have equal rights.

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  • @Kammie

    Do we have a family court in Barbados?

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  • Every country with a liberal democratic legal system ie rule of law, has a family court. Any court that deals with family issues – custody, child support, child care, etc is a de facto family court, even if the case is herd in a magistrates’ court, as is the tradition in Barbados. In days gone by it was Magistrate Bourne who heard all family cases.

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  • @David, no, neither do these emotional issues belong in court, mediation is the best option. These issues clogs the court system and make lawyers fees while the child is emotionally suffering.. The system is badly broken in favor of females. I had to come public as the system from the social services, police to courts have a gynocentric approach. Men are always the guilty until proven innocent. Police tried to intimidate me for doing a video as women complained about mental distress. Judicial officer ignored my complaints of no-show, thus I had to do a video to show the world who was really lying.

    Suddenly moved the child to a more expensive daycare unknown to me despite we both decided on daycare. For three month whereabouts of the child was unknown and only became aware couple weeks before next court date through a letter from claimant attorney of new daycare and increased fees. On turning I was rudely asked why am I on premises and was threatened with police action as my name is not on any register as daycare. Wowsomethings cannot be made up, no amount of politeness mattered as it seems they expected me to come looking to see my daughter.

    Gynocentrism is when a claimant says she is afraid of you and the Judicial officer does not ask why but proceeds to tell you to behave yourself. A year later after making a police complaint about a threat from the brother who accompanies claimant who walks about 20 feet behind me and child the Judicial officer informed of this threat and politely ask if I think the uncle would kill me then have to support my daughter.

    Every child looks forward for gifts at Xmas and I was intent in not getting my daughter`s hers without breaking any laws or any protection order issued against me or even becoming a victim of malicious prosecution so since its was no joy in seeing the child I solicited the help of the RBPF to take her gifts. Somethings cannot be made up especially when a member of the weaker sex plays the victim and uses her emotions to manipulate referee. I was told I had to be sick by the Judicial Officer who heard the case despite my counsel communicated her absence from the jurisdiction.

    The man who was on welfare and was incarcerated for 8 days in error because he was a nobody and the judicial officer who signed the warrant, was too busy after the marshalls did him a favor. so no apology or compensation, can these things be justified.

    Man ordered to pay $260 when his net pay is $200 while judicial officer says not interested in seeing anything which was papers showing he was paying a loan for the said woman who put him in court. Somethings just can’t be made up,

    Another man paying full maintenance have not seen his 6-year-old daughter in 3 years despite court access order. Attorney draws fees but fails to act with alacrity. Now poor guy was slapped with a no-trespass order by grandparents as the mother has returned to UK to work.

    What about the crippled man in the wheelchair with a 16 and a 22-year-old child.

    YES, THERE ARE DELINQUENT MEN BUT IT DOES NOT NEGATE DENYING GOOD FATHERS WHO ARE NOT A DANGER, ACCESS TO THEIR KIDS.

    Brazil has made Parental Alienation Syndrome a felony and in Australia, your driver’s license is taken away. Why I decided to come public. . Barbados have too many hypocritical society and we prefer to pretend and hide our deeds while the moral cancers eat the rot aw

    Daily I receive the complaints from mothers, sisters, aunts, grans, brothers, and friends of how they menfolk are belittled and bruised by our gynocentric system. Perhaps some Judicial Officers will see this post and discuss the emotional consequences of some of their colleague’s behavior who tell men they do not want to hear from them!

    Nothing ever changes unless you agitate for change irrespective of consequences and criticism.

    This video sums it all up as some women also suffer PAS at the hands of men, unfortunately, it’s an ignored issue while countries ignore fallout in rising teenage deviancy and the continuous cycle of broken homes. We must have equal justice in family matters in courts and not a bias towards women.

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  • Thanks Kammie, the blogmaster is painfully aware that high court judges who are untrained in family matters have to rule daily oftentimes with disastrous results. Keep advocating!

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  • We foolishly thought that men could not do it enough and that women could not do it any less, now they are doing it to themselves, the men and the country.

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  • For years generstions of women suffered in silence because of immoral acts men perpetrated on them(beatings!cheating!to name a few)
    Instead of pissing all over woman
    Men should use their platform wisely to mend bridges and heal old wounds
    As a matter of fact all men should be apologizing to the female for the years of abuse women received at the hands of dominant male partners
    Men can cry but they must also be aware that women emotional mechansim does not easily let women forget the good as well as the bad no matter how long ago
    A word to the wise sorry is enough

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  • It is the circle of everything – have you ever seen a dog that was married to a queen…

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  • Freedom Crier

    It is blatantly clear that you must have scored very low in comprehension…………. and continue during adulthood…….. to struggle with the ability to process text and simultaneously extracting and constructing its meaning through interaction and involvement with written language.

    On September 23, 2018 at 11:32 AM, in response to my contribution, you posted a meme which seems to be suggesting anyone who does not like Obama is deemed to be racist.

    In response, I asked you to indicate to me where in any of my contributions I implied you’re a racist because you don’t like Obama.

    And this is how you responded:

    Freedom Crier September 24, 2018 10:09 AM: “So According to your LIMITED VIEWS THOSE WHO SUPPORT TRUMP MUST BE RACIST!!”

    You conveniently switched from mentioning Obama to mentioning Trump.

    Once again……as I previously wrote…..it’s either YOUR comprehension skills are extremely poor……..you purposely interpret issues to suit your particular bias or agenda and then write irrelevant shiite……you enjoy being silly…….OR ALL OF THE ABOVE.

    You have proven it’s ALL OF THE ABOVE.

    However, since you mentioned Trump and racism, I’m sure you can recall (but purposely ignored) Trump has a history of exhibiting racism…….he was sued by the state in the early 1970s for his policy of refusing to rent apartments to African Americans and Hispanics. And I’m sure you also chose to ignore his “shit-hole countries” comment.

    What about his attacks on the INTELLIGENCE of prominent African Americans such as LeBron James, Don Lemon, Maxine Waters, and Omarosa Manigault Newman, which were clearly rooted in racism.

    And presenting information indicating a few African American supporters of DOES NOT PROVE ANYTHING.

    To bring BALANCE and a FAIR REPRESENTATION of his “support and non-support” among the African American population……. you must PRESENT the percentage of those that support him and those that do not…..and then conduct a COMPARATIVE ANALYSIS of the data.

    For example, recent statistics INDICATE Trump’s approval rating is 9% among black voters, while his disapproval rating among them is 85%.

    Your biased attitude is preventing you from engaging in an intelligent debate…….where people can rationally, reasonably and RESPECTFULLY discuss issues, while presenting information to substantiate their opinions….

    …………mainly because you believe what you are presenting is CORRECT and should NOT be challenged.

    When anyone disagrees with your biased opinions,…..you go off on a temper tantrum similarly to a “spoiled little girl” when she is not allowed to have “her own way.”

    You can now go on to quote the scriptures.

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  • re You can now go on to quote the scriptures.

    THIS IS OFF COURSE A MAJOR CRIME ON BARBADOS UNDERGROUND

    QUOTING THE SCRIPTURES ON BU IS A NO NO..ESPECIALLY WHEN DONE CORRECTLY

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  • John 13:34-35 “A new command I give you: Love one another. “

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  • @Hal Austin September 24, 2018 10:14 AM “there is an old Barbadian saying: hard ears you won’t hear, hard ears you will feel.”

    CORRECTION: hard ears you won’t hear, own way you will feel.”

    @Hal Austin September 24, 2018 10:14 AM “Show me a nation where the various ethnic and religious groups live in total harmony and I show you a mirage.”

    Another old Bajan saying “Tongue and teet does disagree”

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  • Some degree of disagreement is normal.

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  • @Kammie Holder September 22, 2018 8:23 AM “Somethings cannot be made up. Recently I had reason to request the police assistance to deliver my daughter’s Xmas gift due to a failure of mother to facilitate delivery or communicate. The presiding judge on hearing this found it favorable to tell me “ I have to be sick”.

    Something is grossly wrong if anybody needs to involve the police and the courts to facilitate the delivery a a Christmas present 9 months after Christmas has passed.

    A waste of precious tax-funded resources.

    We need village councils pf sensible elders to settle minor disputes over the late delivery of Christmas presents

    Like me I wouldda knock the two ‘o wunna heads together [metaphorically of course] and that present would have been delivered no later than December 24, 2017.

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  • “QUOTING THE SCRIPTURES ON BU IS A NO NO..ESPECIALLY WHEN DONE CORRECTLY”

    I disagree!!!

    It is when those scriptures are “disingenuously quoted” by people as a “defensive reaction,” when they are proven wrong and “backed into a corner”……..

    ………..and those of you who believe it’s your right to “condescendingly and sanctimoniously” force your religious beliefs “down the throats of others,”………

    ……….while simultaneously displaying an attitude of self righteousness (i.e. they exhibit moral superiority……. are convinced their beliefs, attitudes and behaviour are CORRECT and of greater value than those of the average person……and are SMUGLY and DISRESPECTFULLY intolerant of the opinions and of others).

    Then “THIS IS OF COURSE (WHEN IT BECOMES) A MAJOR CRIME ON BARBADOS UNDERGROUND.”

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  • “QUOTING THE SCRIPTURES ON BU IS A NO NO..ESPECIALLY WHEN DONE CORRECTLY”

    I disagree!!!

    YOU ARE FREE TO DISAGREE, BUT I HAVE READ A LOT OF RUBBISH ON BU SAID ABOUT THE BIBLE. IT HAS BEEN CALLED MYTHS AND OTHER EVIL THINGS HAVE BEEN SAID, THAT ARE PURE BLASPHEMY. IT HAS ALSO BEEN WRONGLY DIVIDED, AND ITS TENETS DISMISSED.

    THEN WE TALK ABOUT PRAYING FOR THE NATION
    AND EVERY “WEEK OF WHATEVER” STARTS WITH A CHURCH SERVICE SOMEWHERE.

    IN BIM AND ON BU WE HAVE “A FORM OF GODLINESS, BUT DENY THE POWER THEREOF.” THIS IS A TRUTH THAT CAN NOT BE REFUTED.

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  • Simple Simon,

    Say what you like in the country, we have our own sayings in the Ivy.

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  • Africa
    Population: 1.216 billion (2016)
    Area: 11.73 million mi²

    China
    Population: 1.379 billion (2016) World Bank
    Area: 3.705 million mi²

    This is for Hal. So Africa is 3 times the size of China, so why is having a population twice the population of China a problem. Are the Chinese the only ones entitled to enjoy their sex lives and produce children?

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  • The sentencing phase of the Bill Cosby case was held today
    3 – 10 years in the slammer for the jello pudding Man

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  • @Sinple Simon, your humor or a serious situation is unwarranted. The gift was delivered on xmas morning as 2017 xmas was a Monday. Court heard of the RBPF assistance to ensure a peaceful delivery in March 2018. Too many men have malicious protection and no trespass orders issued against them and I am been proactive. Men are always guilty!

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  • @Mariposa September 25, 2018 6:58 PM “3 – 10 years in the slammer for the jello pudding Man.”

    Never trusted a big man who alleges that he eats jello pudding.

    Who besides a toddler would eat that thing?

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  • @Hal Austin September 25, 20188:27 AM “Simple Simon, Say what you like in the country, we have our own sayings in the Ivy.”

    Strange, becausin’ my mother worked in Howells’s and Ivy as a live-in domestic from age 15 to age 24 and she never told me any such thing.

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  • Young SD’s ……..JA style.

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  • And Kammie that is one of the biggest problems where the deck in domestic court decisions is heavily stacked in favour of women aided and abetted by sexual abuse laws which do not take into consideration that men are the silent victims of abuse by women as well further exacerbated by poor unreasonable decision making by highhanded magistrates whose mannerisms and judgments without hearing both sides at times tend to favour the women based on the crocodile tears ridden evidence of some evil women who give decent women a bad name

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  • Whether Mr Trump is a racist or not is of no interest to me since in my view 99 percent of all other non black ethnicities do not like black people who do not even like themselves given our propensity to gravitate to things inimical to their skin colour
    But Mr Trump is no more racist than the revered democratic party representative Mr Robert Byrd once gran wizard of the Ku Klux Klan or the former president who once reminded Senator Edward Kennedy that ” once upon a time Obama would be carrying their bags”

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  • Simple Simon,

    I was born and raised there. I was not just passing through. Tell me who your Mum worked for and I can tell you a story.

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  • My mother was born before 1920 and ceased working in Howells and Ivy by 1940, that is before you were born. Like a lot of country girls she worked for her better off relations until her second child was born just before world war 2, then she became a housewife until the youngest of many children entered elementary school at age 4, then she went back out to work until age 66. It is highly unlikely that your paths crossed.

    I live-in domestic for nearly ten years in not “just passing through”

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  • Who did she work for? Ten years is no time to know a sub-culture.

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  • I choose not to tell you.

    This is not the U.S. Congress nor is it a court of law.

    You may wish to interrogate me. I choose not to answer. And you can’t make me. Lolll!!!

    My mother was as Bajan as you are.

    Subculture or no.

    Do you really want me to believe that a Bajan from northern St. James, would take more than ten years to learn what you call the Ivy “subculture”?

    Now what kind of idiot do you think my late mother was.

    She worked in the “Howell’s & Ivy” from about age 13 to about age 23. Her second child was born when she was 23 years and 6 months, and after that she did not return to paid work until she was 48, and then she went to work on the west coast.

    The very logical saying is “hard ears you won’t hear, own way you will feel.”

    I am right.

    You are wrong.

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  • Painting the woodwork.

    Gotta go.

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  • Kammie I commend you for keeping in the public eye the disadvantageous decisions meted out to men by magistrates in domestic disputes before the court which often brings to mind the comment by Mr Barrow to keep out the law courts of Barbados dollars f you want justice.
    I know of a case where a woman physically assaulted her husband because he refused to give her the car keys and she reported him to the police for assault
    Needless to say the husband got the shitty end of the stick in court the report eventually contributing to him having to leave a home he owned locked stocked and barrel for a year

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