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If gay marriage is allowed, why not polygamy?
If gay marriage is allowed, why not polygamy?

There has been much debate recently about gay marriage and its acceptability or otherwise. Most of the debate hinges on what the Bible says and in defence of the status quo the phrase “marriage is between one man and one woman” keeps occurring. The argument is then taken further to say that if gay marriage is allowed, why isn’t polygamy, for example.

It now appears that the Bible was not that prescriptive about what constituted an acceptable marriage. From the DesMoinesRegister.com, an article written by religious scholars about what the Bible actually says:
“The debate about marriage equality often centers, however discretely, on an appeal to the Bible. Unfortunately, such appeals often reflect a lack of biblical literacy on the part of those who use that complex collection of texts as an authority to enact modern social policy. As academic biblical scholars, we wish to clarify that the biblical texts do not support the frequent claim that marriage between one man and one woman is the only type of marriage deemed acceptable by the Bible’s authors.” The fact that marriage is not defined as only that between one man and one woman is reflected in the entry on “marriage” in the authoritative Eerdmans Dictionary of the Bible (2000): “Marriage is one expression of kinship family patterns in which typically a man and at least one woman cohabitate publicly and permanently as a basic social unit” (p. 861).

The phrase “at least one woman” recognizes that polygamy was not only allowed, but some polygamous biblical figures (e.g., Abraham, Jacob) were highly blessed. In 2 Samuel 12:8, the author says that it was God who gave David multiple wives: “I gave you your master’s house, and your master’s wives into your bosom. … And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more” (Revised Standard Version).

In fact, there were a variety of unions and family configurations that were permissible in the cultures that produced the Bible, and these ranged from monogamy (Titus 1:6) to those where rape victims were forced to marry their rapist (Deuteronomy 22:28-29) and to those Levirate marriage commands obligating a man to marry his brother’s widow regardless of the living brother’s marital status (Deuteronomy 25:5-10; Genesis 38; Ruth 2-4). Others insisted that celibacy was the preferred option (1 Corinthians 7:8; 28).

Although some may view Jesus’ interpretation of Genesis 2:24 in Matthew 19:3-10 as an endorsement of monogamy, Jesus and other Jewish interpreters conceded that there were also non-monogamous understandings of this passage in ancient Judaism, including those allowing divorce and remarriage. In fact, during a discussion of marriage in Matthew 19:12, Jesus even encourages those who can to castrate themselves “for the kingdom” and live a life of celibacy. Ezra 10:2-11 forbids interracial marriage and orders those people of God who already had foreign wives to divorce them immediately.

So, while it is not accurate to state that biblical texts would allow marriages between people of the same sex, it is equally incorrect to declare that a “one-man-and-one-woman” marriage is the only allowable type of marriage deemed legitimate in biblical texts. This is not only our modern, academic opinion. This view of the multiple definitions of “biblical” marriage has been acknowledged by some of the most prominent names in Christianity. For example, the famed Reformationist Martin Luther wrote a letter in 1524 in which he commented on polygamy as follows: “I confess that I cannot forbid a person to marry several wives, for it does not oppose the Holy Scriptures.”

Accordingly, we must guard against attempting to use ancient texts to regulate modern ethics and morals, especially those ancient texts whose endorsements of other social institutions, such as slavery, would be universally condemned today, even by the most adherent of Christians.” Read the last paragraph again and reflect on a quote from Christopher Hitchens “The Bible may, indeed does, contain a warrant for trafficking in humans, for ethnic cleansing, for slavery, for bride-price, and for indiscriminate massacre, but we are not bound by any of it because it was put together by crude, uncultured human mammals.”

You can read the original of the article:

Iowa View: 1 man, 1 woman isn’t the Bible’s only marriage view


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67 responses to “Is Marriage an Institution Between One Man and One Woman?”



  1. @Kiki | June 12, 2013 at 7:49 PM |
    “in Uk Gays are considered a minority same as blacks
    so in work places gays and blacks rights are treated as a same issue”

    I AM NOT BLACK, NEITHER AM I GAY

    male on male intercourse is totally disgusting a against nature. God created the male for female, that is a complete and perfect union, he designed everything that way. anything else is an abomination. it is a filthy disgusting act which should never be condoned in any decent society.


  2. I AM NOT BLACK, NEITHER AM I GAY
    =
    Same here

    I worked with gays in IT and they write programs same as straight people

    I don’t condone gay marriage (it’s not an issue I even think about)

  3. millertheanunnaki Avatar
    millertheanunnaki

    @ Pinkie | June 13, 2013 at 2:07 PM |
    “… he designed everything that way. anything else is an abomination.”

    You again with that Old Testament crap!

    Why don’t you answer the questions posed to you earlier?

    Did your mock god also encouraged Cain to have sex with his mother or with his mysterious sister so that people like you with massive genetic and congenital defects could be around today?

    Didn’t your omniscient sexually twisted god know that Lot’s two daughters would have made their dad drunk from wine so they could rape him in order to carry on the tribe?

    Which do you prefer to have around you?
    A homosexual son who brings home his “boyfriend” or a sexually perverted murderer of a son called Cain who has sex with his underage sister and wants to do the same with you because of some Oedipus perversion?

    Unless you can address these two anomalies about your defective god’s imperfect creatures we refuse to listen to your biblical ranting on any moral issue.

    Only if your god was female instead of male all of this abomination shite would not be floating around. That “She God” would have made all Eve’s and not Adam or Steve’s.

    PS: If you can’t answer because it’s too heavy a matter for a fundamentalist idiot like you maybe your colleague Zoe can chip in on your behalf.

  4. The Dummy @ Dumo Avatar
    The Dummy @ Dumo

    Miller

    You are drown to the homosexual flame like moth to a fire. Get over it, Christ Church South wanted a red blooded man, with all his parts fully in tact.

  5. The Dummy @ Dumo Avatar
    The Dummy @ Dumo

    No plucked eye brows and lipstick wearing men for Ch Ch South

  6. millertheanunnaki Avatar
    millertheanunnaki

    @ The Dummy @ Dumo | June 13, 2013 at 5:01 PM

    Now that we are both at the flame please answer the questions posed to Pinkie since she the intellectual fly unfortunately is unable to reach the flame of enlightenment because she got “shot down” in flight.

    Now deal with the issues instead of playing up in Walcott’s “bull”shit!


  7. You are all piddling in trivial issues you got no say in while world is burning
    It’s illegal to be offensive to Gays online in public. Watch what you say


  8. Denying the gays the same rights o as heterosexuals cannot be fomrulated through “shite speech” the tne and nonsenical rehtoric propogated by homphobics like bush tea serves no purpose and fails in the effort to persuade.which however falls into the catergory ofhate speech and unintelligible ignorance and fearmongering

  9. Smooth Chocolate Avatar
    Smooth Chocolate

    what filthy degenerates are u people to try and force on sensible and decent societies that God advocated marriage between, same sex. if u men enjoy the taste and smell of defecation, that’s ur filthy business but do not attempt to fool urself into believing that God allows such nastiness


  10. what I don’t understand how can people deny anyone their basic human rights because on their sexual orientation. mind you when the sexual aspect is removed from the equation all that connects these two people is “love” the same concept that binds and nurtures a heterosexual relationship. the fact of the matter is that these two human being after committing themselves to a long term relationship have no recourse or decision making in each others personal life outside that of being marriage,
    ONE needs to understand that the crux of the same sex marriage is not wether gays have a right to sexual acts with each other but one which justify the legitimate rights of gay couples a privilege extended to heterosexual couples that can only be accomplished through marriage


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