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male prostituteIn recent days the homosexuality issue has been in the news at every turn, or so it seems. Last week we got an email from a BU family member which alerted us to the story about a Baptist minister who took a ten day vacation with a male prostitute. What is laughable is the label anti-gay which the story attached to the Baptist minister.

Before that we were subjected to the ridiculous comment by Minister of Education Ronald Jones, who in response to concerns raised about rising lesbianism in our schools was quoted as follows:   I have seen in my time growing up where, as part of their exploratory phase of development in our communities, girls ‘playing’ with themselves and with each other, nobody would put that as lesbianism, but what is essentially happening is that it is easier now to really accentuate the negative because that’s what sells [papers] . . . . so all of a sudden all of our girls [are lesbians]. That’s not true. – Nation Newspaper. How can a Minister of Education make such an irresponsible statement without feeling obligated to cite empirical evidence?

To cap the homosexuality talk in recent weeks we had the Archbishop of the West Indies Dr John Holder publicly stating that the Anglican Church will not break with tradition in the Caribbean by ordaining homosexual priests. A bold pronouncement by the good bishop in the face of the runaway gay lobby.

What is evident whether we like it or not is that the alternative lifestyle is an issue which we have to confront as a country, it is not going to disappear anytime soon. We have a now generation who live the homosexual lifestyle as a norm. The homosexual progression in Barbados will probably see prominent Barbadians lending weight to the lobby by coming out of the closet in the near future.

Barbados is a tiny community and the sexual orientation of many of our teachers, lawyers, politicians, priests, media practitioners, businessmen and women is already known. The don’t kiss don’t tell policy is alive and well, Barbadians have long perfected the art of whispering behind close doors while keeping mum in public about those who practice the alternative lifestyle. All the talk of homosexuality in recent weeks has forced BU to ask a question.

Would Barbadians accept a political leader who is a declared homosexual?

It is a national debate which has been avoided up to now because of our perceived fickle libel and slander laws.  However, if the young generation is comfortable practicing the homosexual lifestyle to the point they are open in how they live it, it seems logical that some of our future political leaders will be of the alternative lifestyle.

So, would you accept a political leader who has been bold and honest to step out of the closet to declare, I am gay?.


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118 responses to “Confronting The Alternative Lifestyle”


  1. I think (maybe optimistically), that is a yes to all three questions.

    Do not underestimate the youngsters.Any party that does will do so at their peril.


  2. Yes, Crusoe. Young people are much more open-minded and I am sure they would have no problem.

    Yes, David. Young people are not real good at voting. But even if they were, I agree with you that their acceptance would not be as universal as Crusoe (and I) hope. Not yet anyway.

    Yes, Bonny, in anticpation I did say “strapadicktome” – well, not to me personally, but you get the picture. Picture it – Zoe and Technician with strap-ons. Can you imagine the arguments about how to arrange the harness? Or the order of precedence? It reminds me of the old Limmerick:

    There was a young gay of Khartoum
    Took a lesbian up to his room.
    They argued all night
    About who had the right
    To do what, with which….and to whom.


  3. Amused
    I am convinced, you are crazyyyyyyyyy. I serious. You in easy a’tall. you is a whole stand-up comedy show wrapped up in one. Ya does mek my belly hurt me. But listen, I know dat Pat talking bout ‘strapadickyon’ but I talkin bout de ‘juice’ man. I like my ‘juice’ splash all ova me man so dem won’t be na help ta me a’tall. LOLLLLL
    I luv de poem.

    Crusoe
    ‘If at first you don’t succeed’.
    But dah is wah I trying to tall ya. It doan evva work fa me. You feel dat I should add lil cayenne peppa?
    Lord, help ma. Wunna bad.


  4. Bonny, Cayenne pepper would be good…..but what bout a little hot sauce instead? Matouks.


  5. Amused
    Hot sauceeeeeeee? you mad or wah? ta burn me in my eyes now? Uh-uh, I restricting my ‘burnin’ to one or two places below average bosey
    murtherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.ya hopeless.


  6. @ Bonny P

    Bonny, you best go over to the Bjerkhamn thread and see if you can get ROKie to cool down some passion there before he blow a valve or something. 🙂

  7. Straight talk Avatar

    If at first you don’t succeed……. nice pun Crusoe.


  8. @ Amused….

    Man wtf!!
    What strap on what?
    What picture Zoe and Technician what?

    I made sure to stay clear of this particular thread for obvious reasons, leave me out of this one man.


  9. @ Amused;

    I just love you worldly “ole guys”! Believe me, I have always found older guys exciting, knowledgeable and damn funny. Most importantly, they can be very good company.

    @ Bonny Peppa

    A “hot tot” like you only pretending, chaw girl! lol.


  10. Pat
    ya got ma rocking back an laffin man. de water running down ma cheek n ma leg. Oh shoottttttttttt. Ya funny as piss. Can’t stop you a’tall.

    I just love de ole guys too. and Amused sound like real disgusting-fun. rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr


  11. Old men are like old brooms – they get into every corner.


  12. Amused
    And they know exactly how longggggggg to stand in each corner too.
    Murdaaaaaaaa.


  13. @Bonny. Don’t you know it.

    @David. There seems to be something wrong with the video. I can’t get it to play.


  14. Amused
    I have a few corners meself that need a good sweep.
    Old broom , whay you?


  15. July 10-2010:

    Homosexuality Within The Caribbean!

    Homosexuality or Men and Women Loving or Having Sex With their own Gender, have been the reality within this region for decades, or long before I was born, and will contnue to be a reality long after I am gone. Christianity with all of it’s prejudices have been the modus operandi which was always used to ridicule this fact as a plague that had to be eradicated or quarantined. But yet, many Christian converts, preachers, nuns, and pastors alike are knowingly living a closeted homsexcual life, while a the same time, castigating it as Sinful or Abominable.

    The decision to castigate homosexuals/lesbians in this region, is one method used by the Self-righteous among us, (Christians and Non-Christians alike), to make Homosexuals feel Guilty, Ashamed of their sexuality, and indulge in Underground Sexual activities, which are oftentimes very harmful and lethal to their personal safety, livelihood, and self image.

    Is Homosexuality A personal Choice or Genetic:

    Homosexuality is currently accepted within socio/psychological disciplines as genetic. One is born with the genes that makes the individual sexually attracted to another of his or her own gender. This is as normal as someone who finds someone of the opposite gender sexually appealing.

    Religion has no Authority or Right to determine who has the right to be so-called Normal, Heterosexual, or Evil. These Christian. Islamic, or other religious views were coined to castigate those that did not, or does not confirm to the rules of that or those religions, from time immemorial.

    Homosexual Have Rights Too:

    All Homosexuals have rights too, that must be respected within all societies. And if any legislation is enacted to castigate, imprison, behead, whip, or imprison homosexuals/lesbians. That society and law MUST be Abhorred, and stringent efforts made by all concerned citizens to ensure that it is rescinded or repealed.

    Personal blackmail or slander against any homosexual/lesbian MUST be challenged in a Court Of Law, and the accuser made to explain therein his/her reason for so doing.

    Freedom Of Speech is also a right for every individual. But it does not give anyone the right to indulge in blackmail, in order to defame, denigrate, or castigate any individual/s within that society, or from enjoying the personal safety, privacy, social standing, or respect he/she deserves.

    Derryck S. Griffith.
    Guyanese-NYC.


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  17. If any politician openly admits that he is homsexual or lesbians, I would embrace that decision.

    Also if any politician openly admits that he is an atheist, I would also embrace his decision.

    Without integrity from our elected representatives, where else could we expect to find it?

    Most certainly not in our churches, synagogues, or mosques.

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