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As the public discourse on sexual harassment, in light of the ongoing Parliamentary debate on the Employment Sexual Harassment (Prevention) Bill, assumes pride of place locally and in the US, where the contemporary revelations of the seemingly unending past misdeeds of Mr. Harvey Weinstein proliferate on the news media, there appears to be much in this discussion that betrays a popular misperception of the nature of the โ€œbeastโ€ with which the proposed legislation seeks to contend. This exists mainly in the form of myth, caused in part by the assumption that everyone knows precisely what is sexual harassment because he or she has heard the concept mentioned somewhere, in much the same way that some Barbadians are wont to refer to an individual as his or her โ€œfriendโ€, simply because they have seen that individualโ€™s photograph at one time or another in a newspaper.

In this weekโ€™s essay, I propose to examine some of the mythology (old menโ€™s tales) surrounding sexual harassment in light of the provisions of the Bill in its present form.

  • That sexual harassment needs to be continuous to be remediable

Continuity is not an indispensable aspect of sexual harassment. Even though the word โ€œharassmentโ€ does connote a serial pattern of behaviour, there may be a single act so egregious that non-consent to it by the victim may be presumed. Obeying President Trumpโ€™s advice for dealing with married women by grabbing [or as local parlance would have it, โ€œgrabblingโ€] them by their pudenda would constitute an act of sexual harassment even in the absence of its repetition, since it may be assumed that such conduct would not ordinarily be consented to. Indeed, the Bill recognizes this where it provides in Clause 3(2), after listing in sub-clause (1) acts that are included in the definition of sexual harassment, among them, โ€œthe initiation of unwanted physical contact with a personโ€, that โ€œnothing inโ€ฆ(1) shall be interpreted as precluding a finding of sexual harassment where there is a single incidentโ€ฆโ€ Of course, in circumstances where an act is not immediately unacceptable on its face, a repetition will constitute sexual harassment only if it has been made clear by the recipient that such an overture is unwelcome.

  • That there is an element of contributory fault in sexual harassment

The fact that a female may be scantily clad or is wearing revealing clothing does not afford justification for the actions of the harasser. There is no provision in the Bill for the inappropriateness or existence of the harassment to be reduced if it is argued that the victim induced it by her manner of dress or by the display of her physical assets.

  • That sexual harassment needs to be directed to the victim

In fact and in law, sexual harassment may be present by the creation of an objectively hostile environment that is not directed to the complainant solely. According to clause 3 (1)(a), [For the purposes of this Act, sexual harassment includes] the use of sexually suggestive words, comments, jokes, gestures or actions that annoy, alarm or abuse a personโ€ฆ

Given that โ€œa personโ€ is used here in a generic sense in that sub-clause, it should suffice that someone is alarmed or annoyed by the alleged conduct, whether it was aimed at that individual or not. Moreover, sub-clause (e) which lists โ€œtransmitting sexually offensive writing or material of any kindโ€ appears to be of a similar general nature as well, although this, to my mind, would appear to be too broadly drafted in its present form and would capture the transmission of material between two consenting parties that is stumbled upon by an unsuspecting individual. Any redraft should indicate clearly that this sub-clause relates solely to the uninvited transmission of such material to an individual.

Too besides, in this connection, it may also be considered sexual harassment where an employer grants employment benefits to an employee as a result of that employeeโ€™s agreement to grant sexual favours to the employer, to a client or to his or her supervisor to the disbenefit of an employee who did not likewise agree. The aggrieved employee would have been sexually harassed here, even though the Bill does not seem to require the benefit granted and denied be the identical one in each case.

  • That sexual harassment is gender-neutral

In keeping with the modern trend, the Bill, as drafted, is gender-neutral, a fact that surprisingly has drawn no negative comment from those quarters that protested a similar treatment for the recent amendment to the Domestic Violence Act. Of course, it is eminently possible that sexual harassment may occur between those of the same gender but the larger truth, according to the Journal of the American Psychological Association, is that โ€œ99% of sexual harassment victims are femaleโ€. To equate the two forms conceptually is thus to close oneโ€™s eyes to the reality and to confound the possible with the distinctly probable.

  • That sexual harassment occurs mainly in the workplace

Given its nature, sexual harassment may occur in any context where one party perceives the opportunity to trade a benefit desired by another for sexual favours. Barbados has chosen for now to restrict its prevention efforts to the workplace environment, unlike Belize which, in its Protection against Sexual Harassment Act 1996, also restricts sexual harassment in educational and other institutions that are workplaces in part, but are also environments where encounters between genders of different levels of influence proliferate and are thus ripe with the probability of quid pro quo harassment. Further, there is also restriction in the Belize Act in the context of the rental of accommodation. According to one local parliamentarian, it is expected that the current Bill, when proclaimed into law, will conduce to a culture of anti-sexual harassment conduct everywhere in Barbados.

  • That the legislation will preclude social intercourse between males and females in the workplace

This is most assuredly not a necessary consequence of the legislation. Normal workplace relations may still subsist; it is simply that these should be attended with a modicum of respect for the individual and for their sensibilities. Ordinary by-play between male and female workers may continue without either being overly obnoxious or crude. In any event, a compliment on another individualโ€™s appearance or even an expression of oneโ€™s secret desire towards him or her does by itself not constitute sexual harassment unless it is either knowingly unwelcome or, as stated earlier, so crude as to be presumed repugnant to any given individual.

  • That the legislation will create additional imposition on the employer

This is to catch at straws. Even in the absence of legislation, the employer has an obligation to take reasonable steps to ensure a safe system of working for the individual employee. This would include, on the part of the employer, the ensuring of an environment free of sexual harassment and of its condign censure once established. As has been stated, โ€œIf an employer knows that acts being done by employees during their employment may cause physical or mental harm to a particular fellow employee and he does nothing to supervise or to prevent such acts, when it is his power to do so, it is clearly arguable that he may be in breach of his duty to that employeeโ€ฆโ€ The sole new imposition on the employer will be to devise the policy statement stipulated under Clause 4 of the Bill and assistance is provided in that regard by the Bill itself.


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102 responses to “The Jeff Cumberbatch Column – Sexual Harassment: The Myth and the Reality”


  1. Jeff

    We are not sure that such social or legislative responses adhere to the culture, seem almost always as impositions from elsewhere.

    We are not even sure that these responses have worked in the places where tried.

    In the USA, for example, these frameworks have served to negatively impact the innate relationships between men and women. Others will comments on the other possibilities.

    In Barbados, the absence of social requirements, about other things, for traditional control or separation of the sexes seem absent. Separation of boys and girls in schools could be another example.

    We agree that a legal requirement for women to be less ‘radiant’ may indeed be inconsistent with the emerging cultural norms. But is there not a case for some non-legislative prescriptions?

    On the matter of the APA we would wish to remind you that that organization was largely responsible for the torture regimes being practiced, to this day, at Guantanamo Bay. That involvement represents a significant blemish to an already questionable series of interventions by the APA.


  2. @Pachamama October 22, 2017 at 7:56 AM “But is there not a case for some non-legislative prescriptions?:

    And what would you suggest?


  3. Good morning all:

    The truth of many of your mother’s have been sexually harassed.


  4. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/19/opinion/lupita-nyongo-harvey-weinstein.html
    Lupita Nyongโ€™o: Speaking Out About Harvey Weinstein

  5. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Two words..

    RAPE SOCIETY.

  6. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Goldwyn Myer, the 2 demons who helped start the hollyweird industry were even worse, it was the beginning of the 20th century when children, women and many men were just victims of the beasts of hollyweird.


  7. The ” Employment Sexual Harassment (Prevention) Bill,” should act as a deterrent and reduce the incidence of men harassing women at work.

    This will not change how normal men and women relate to each other in the workplace.


  8. Sometime men pretend that they do not know what sexual harassment is. I advise all men to ask not the women in the office, or the factory, or the construction site, but ask your mother whether she has even been sexually harassed on her job or elsewhere. Do not be afraid of what you will hear. Go ahead. Ask her. And if your mother is dead and you have an aunt who is of her generation, then ask your aunt.

    My own aunt who died at 85+ in this 21st century, told me that she continued wearing her wedding ring, up into her mid-70’s although she no longer had a husband in the hope that men would not try to feel her up. My aunt was a very large breasted woman, but women do not ask for large breasts, and large breasts are NOT an invitation to men to feel up.

    The harassment only stopped when she had a stroke and could no longer go out.


  9. @Pachamama October 22, 2017 at 7:56 AM “In Barbados, the absence of social requirements, about other things, for traditional control or separation of the sexes seem absent. Separation of boys and girls in schools could be another example.”

    So who is going to pay for all this separation of the sexes, separate schools, separate buses, separate airplanes, separate stores?

    When men should have learned by puberty NOT TO TOUCH ANYONE without their consent.

    In other words keep your damn hands to yourself. Cheap. Effective.


  10. SS in canada the federal government pays for all that and more , and to prove that point we have been paying salaries for a separate tits party in cabinet for years.


  11. Maybe so. But wunna Canadians got oil and gas, and hydro power, and wheat, and fish and lumber, and the brains of the best educated people in the world to sell.

    What do Bajans have to sell? to fund all this separateness?

    Imagine how much less trouble Harvey Weinstein would be in if he had learned to keep his hands and other body parts away from non consenting parties.

  12. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    There is no need for separation of children…the males have to be taught from secondary school that they are not entitled to sex from anyone….this sexual harassment and rape problem is a predominantly male psychosis, that starts from puberty..

    ……they believe they have some right to sex and to take sex…educate ya idiot males from young that it is not so just because their fathers, grandfathers, uncles and cousins says it’s so and their female relatives enable and condone it…..without showing them the right way to socialize.

    Then ya wont have a whoremongering society believing everything should be exchanged for sex.

    Had many psychos in corporate environments both black and white thinking that every female wants them….ya just had to threaten them with HR and a sexual harassment complaint….and that immediately cooled them off…one old dude was persistent however and ended up collapsing from a heart attack.

    Lawson…am a little miffed at my boyfriend for not putting down his foot so that US refugees would know that Canada has thousands of miles of landscape and open spaces that they can develop, just like the Asians do.

    I left a comment on the reparations thread.


  13. Simple Simon …………… the simpleton

    This is not our area and we do not pretend to have all the answers.

    What we know for certain is that no set of men saying that they gine pass a new law is going to have any influence on the abuse of women or men.

    Let the women themselves, as the ones most effected, say what they want to have the country do to stop it.

    Our broader point was that both boys and girls should be properly educated, separately, about this issue and many other things, as one possible answer.

    For the idiocy of passing laws to fine people or put men in jail has limits.

    What people like simpletons like you should address are the mountains of laws currently on the books which have no social impact at all. Laws which can never have an impact unless the people beforehand determine that the conditions exist to give them real meaning.

    To suggest that merely passing another ineffectual piece of legislation is the only response possible severely minimizes the magnitude of such a problem.

    We are willing to wager that such a law will not halt the slide in social relationships between the sexes.

    In any case, as another article here makes claim, this is merely another political jerk off.


  14. Based on the discussion during the week there is a lot of room for education about sexualsexual harassment in a Barbados context.

  15. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    To expand on this….

    ….the males have to be taught from secondary school that they are not entitled to sex from anyoneโ€ฆ.this sexual harassment and rape problem is a predominantly male psychosis, that starts from puberty..

    I remember many females saying when they were in their 20s, 30s, 40s and even old women bajan men would tell them they liked them since they were little girls and these girls/women owe them sex..

    ….teach these beasts from very young 12 years and up that neither little girls, little boys, old women nor old men owe them any sex…that is a mental illness they carry around and infest and infect the society with….it’s a vicious mental illness.

  16. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    “We are willing to wager that such a law will not halt the slide in social relationships between the sexes.”

    Barbados has this reputation for creating laws and legislation…then REFUSING TO ENFORCE THEM..

    If the laws and legislations are not being enforced, they are useless.


  17. Well Well

    If a man is being abused by a woman, to make a complaint would laugh that person, the man, out of the police station.

    The police might even beat him up again as well. LOL

  18. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Lol….

    Sorry I laughed, but women should not be abusing or raping men either, not all men welcome the assault…..

    …..some women are mentally and emotionally stonger than some men, but that is no excuse…and should be taken very seriously as should abuse and rape of women and children ….

    ….but you noticed, the abuse and rape of women and children are not taken seriously by the police, magistrates and judges either, so it’s a pattern of allowing a rape society to flourish for the last 50 years.

  19. peterlawrencethompson Avatar
    peterlawrencethompson

    There is a very simple test that straight men can use to determine if the behaviour or coment that they are contemplating constitutes sexual harassment: would that same behaviour or comment directed towards you by a 270 pound muscular man make you uncomfortable?? if yes, then it is sexual harassment.


  20. @Peter

    A big part of the problem is that the culture in the region for many years supported a behaviour by men of ‘begging for piece’ and if the woman said no it was regarded as the woman playing ‘hard to get’ or playing decent but eventually will surrender to the pursuit. The Bill is a start but it must be supported with robust education programs. If it is not we fear ‘innocent/ignorant’ men will be caught in the quagmire of enforcement.


  21. David

    You got this wrong. The education programs should come before the law.

    Abuse/harassment is related to other types of problems as well


  22. @Pacha

    Ideally yes but it is fashionable these days to line up behind international convention on matters like sexual harassment,capital punishment and the like. Although it must be said that the government has dug its heels in on the matter of decriminalizng homosexuality ๐Ÿ™‚


  23. @ David, ” โ€˜begging for piece”

    Haven’t heard that Bajanism in “donkey years” lol.


  24. Pachamama October 22, 2017 at 6:26 PM #

    Sorry, Pacha has a point. How can one expect a law to act in its entirety and without fear or favour, when the culture in the society deems otherwise?

    To ensure that the aims are achieved, changing the culture is necessary too.

    Interestingly, reading Jeff’s article, although most of the words were generic re gender, it seemed to focus on male / female interaction.

    I think that including reference to female / female harassment being included within the legislation, especially in Barbados, REALLY would be useful. It might seem obvious to an attorney, but not to some lay people.

    Plenty of organisations here where that clarification is necessary. When you talk about predatory behavior, do not leave women out.

    As for evidence, how will one decide between harassment and normal relations between to persons? Especially when an allegation may be made of harassment, when possibly the issue may have been a consensual relationship gone bad?

    How does the Court decide on spiteful claims, after the fact?

    While the legislation is warranted, I wonder about the ‘real’ issues in implementation.


  25. The law is about SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

    Hopefully it will change the bad behavior of men and women in the work place.

    Men outnumber lesbians in most work places so the problem is uncouth igrunt men who have not learned that women must be respected.

  26. peterlawrencethompson Avatar
    peterlawrencethompson

    @David
    I think that charging, convicting and sentencing the harassers will be quite educational for them. Some others may even learn from the example.


  27. Peter, isnโ€™t there enough evidence to support the position that incarceration by itself without rehabilitation is not as effective?


  28. Is it now that more women are up there in the work force that sexual harrassment by men has become a big issue?
    Barbados has always had a culture of its black women of a certain age whether on the job or not, who use sex as their currency. A bajan male from the time he gets into high school would soon learn that this is the currency used mostly by female students.Now, he leaves school and enters the world of work, there he observes old ass women fooping any and everybody for any number of reasons so long as they get what is to be achieved.
    Why is sexual harrassment in the work place being made to appear that bajan women are saints.

  29. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Whitehill…because you can’t have sex as a currency to exchange indefinitely, because it will continue from generation to generation, not all females in Barbados use sex as a currency and if you are implying that they do, you are also including your grandmother, mother and all females in your family.

    When politicians/ministers use sex as a bargaining chip to generate and offer jobs for the same people who elected them…that is a form of rape….and an abhorrent practice from the leaders that is emulated by everyone down the foodchain.

    When employers use sex as a weapon against employees both male and female to keep their jobs or even get a job, that too is rape…

    It’s become cultural and way past the sexual harassment stage, that plaster the government is reluctantly pretending to apply, is just for appearances…because they will never want to address their established rape society, that means it will have to be dismantled..

    There has always been sexual harassment in the homes and on the streets, it did not start with the advent of females in the work place.

  30. Jeff Cumberbatch Avatar
    Jeff Cumberbatch

    Law students are reportedly being advised to report attorneys who make sexual advances on them or force them to give sexual favours in order to keep complete their training.

    An article written by Aaron Mahabir in the October edition of a newsletter published by the Hugh Wooding Law School, called ‘The Gavel’, says some attorneys may be abusing their positions of trust by demanding sexual favours from law students.

    These reports continue to circulate among the student population. From explicit text messages, sending of pornographic photos and videos, to inappropriate touching and verbal demands for sexual favors, sexual harassment can take many forms,” Mahabir said.

    Senior tutor Cheryl-Ann Jerome-Alexander urged law students to come forward and report practitioners who committed these unlawful acts, saying unless this is done, the cycle of crime will continue.

    From loopttcom


  31. Jeff,
    My concern is about interpretation and mission creep. There is a world of difference between rape and sexual assault and innuendo. In the UK, and most of Europe, even an uninvited glance is enough to be accused of sexual harassment.
    I will give a real example. A Barbadian man, aged in his mid 50s (who sadly died only a week ago), had a serious stroke and was in a North London hospital. He was to wash himself and all these intimate services had to be done by a nurse.
    On once occasion t wo nurses, one black the other white, came to wash him and change his clothes and, in humour, he said to them that they were his favourite nurses and he looked forward to seeing them. The middle-aged black nurse joked with him and dismissed his comment, the white nurse, much younger, made a formal complaint of sexual harassment. It led to a formal inquiry.
    In the UK, even calling a woman ‘darling’ or ‘love’ or ‘beautiful’ is enough to get you the sack. And, as this is Britain, race shows its ugly head. Black men are considered by the mainstream feminist movement as being irredeemably sexist.
    It is one reason why the Wages for Housework movement (led by CLR James’ widow, Selma) are marginalised from the mainstream feminists – because they work closely with black people.
    Having man-hating diplomats from Europe and North America coming to the Caribbean and setting an agenda is highly risky. We must decide for ourselves what our social issues are.

  32. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Just last week a british dude flying from Afghanistan, passing through Dubai on his way home to UK, stopped at a Dubai nightclub and walking through the crowded club, touched a man on his hip to alert him he was passing….he got sentenced to 3 months in a Dubai prison for that contact.

    Caribbean males have this repugnant culture of attaching a sexual innuendo to everything they say and do….that is why cricketer Gale always gets into trouble and did so very recently in Australia.

    …teach young Black makes and females that not everything is about sex or sexually related and you will get a different generation of people who do not equate everything and everyone as a sexual conquest.

    The males wont keep believing that they are entitled to or owed sex or be charged for sex offenses and the females will not think it’s normal to be sexually abused or raped.


  33. Hal, your remark (edited for clarity) viz : “Having … diplomats from Europe and North America coming to the Caribbean and setting an agenda is highly risky. We must decide for ourselves what our social issues are” is a sharp two edged sword with which we have lived and worked for surely the last 50 years of nationhood.

    Those same wise folks from over in away have directed or influenced our leaders n people to very positive social change as well.

    Your example rings loudly for most Caribbean men who grew up using that Bajanism ‘my dear’ or sometimes the more provocative ‘sweetheart’ as simple, friendly forms of greetings/exchange with females.

    Unfortunately, we are in a different space and tenor of life now and we have to modify our palaver to suit the social demands… in this case this is a social issue that we must fix ourselves…absolutely, as the times demand it.

    More realistically we also must realize that the previously accepted banter was a clear indication of misguided socialization that we men could objectify women with such terms of endearment and it was no big deal… in fact it always should have been, if we are honest about it.

    I certainly had to fix my friendly ‘my dear’ ease of communication to completely avoid any misunderstandings in the workplace.

  34. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Hal…lives in a majority, white, female led society and has for decades, with his every move controlled by white males and females…even what he thinks is controlled by those he speaks about, he is not protesting that utter cpntrol these europeans have on him and is family……neither is he removing himself from it…

    So what if a couple females from europe give advise to the Caribbean on combating sexual abuse…generations of european have been subjected to and counselled regarding the social issue which is a social blight…they have had experience in combating it, while the islands are still stuck in rape, sexual abuse and incest mode….

    Hal the hypocrite.


  35. @Hal A
    Having man-hating diplomats from Europe and North America coming to the Caribbean and setting an agenda is highly risky. We must decide for ourselves what our social issues are
    ++++++++++

    Hal, could you give us a course on how to identify our social issues? The proposed law is not a panacea for correcting sexual harassment/sexual assault but it is a start. Anyone who has worked or lived in Barbados will confirm that sexual harassment has been rampant in society from the proverbial โ€œsince Adam was a ladโ€. Factually one can say that some of the same MPs who are/were debating this bill have been accused of sexual harassment which even led to a nickname for an individual which has been bandied about on the social network.

    There will always be exceptions but the exceptions shouldnโ€™t drive the rule, we have to get beyond the โ€œwe always do it like thatโ€ to โ€œwhat are we doing wrong?โ€

  36. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    I could just see Hal in his pre UK days believing all young girls on the island…owed him sex….

    He is protesting the addressing of sexual harassment on the island way too much….again I ask…

    So what if a couple females from europe give ADVICE to the Caribbean on combating sexual abuse, so what…

    He always has his tongue at full length ready to lick the beast of buckingham palace….a white european female….shameful negro.

  37. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Ah fixing me errors Hal..

    Halโ€ฆlives in a majority white female led society and has for decades, with his every move controlled by white males and femalesโ€ฆin the Uk….which is EUROPE…

    even what he thinks is controlled by those he speaks about IN EUROPE, he is not protesting that utter conntrol these europeans have on him and his familyโ€ฆโ€ฆneither is he removing himself from itโ€ฆ

    That just about sums up Hal..lol


  38. @ Whitehill
    “Barbados has always had a culture of its black women of a certain age whether on the job or not, who use sex as their currency. A bajan male from the time he gets into high school would soon learn that this is the currency used mostly by female students.Now, he leaves school and enters the world of work, there he observes old ass women fooping any and everybody for any number of reasons so long as they get what is to be achieved.”

    This statement can only come from a sick racist mind. But then we will never know if you are black or white. The pleasure of hiding behind a “non-slave” name. Just sick……….


  39. Sargeant October 23, 2017 at 8:45 AM #

    Hal, could you give us a course on how to identify our social issues?

    @Sargeant

    In a democracy social problems are what the people say they are. What to me may be a social problem (ie contributors to BU hiding behind anonymous masks and defaming people) while to you it may be freedom.
    Let the people decide.

  40. Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. Avatar
    Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger.

    Yeah….I thought it was rather nasty too, that’s why I pointed out how efficiently he included his females relatives with that broad brush stroke…making himself part of the problem where the males in Barbados always believe they are entitled to sex and then disrespect females as part of that nasty culture.

    I dont want to comment too broadly on lawyers who abuse their preceived status and use sex as a weapon of control, cause then ya will hear I am picking on lawyers because I dont like them..

    ….the older lawyers were pure evil and repulsive with that nasty practice…..minors, teenagers, mothers, daughters, no one was safe from these dirty beasts……

    …..both males and some females, the most recognized names in the legal fraternity, the nastiest bunch of sexual predators ever known to blight the island with their presence and perversions….a real sickness, many of them are now too old and sick to continue or already carried their stained demonic asses off the earth….but they did a lot of damage..

    And dont let’s start on the ministers and politicians of yesterday, perverted and possessed….they still got some active in politics…thankfully most of them are in the boneyard.


  41. As you go through life you should learn and discern what is right or wrong.

    This “SEXUAL HARASSMENT” law is nescessary to change the behavior of igrunt wutless men in the WORKPLACE.

    Hopefully women will use their cell phones to record the “harassers”.

  42. millertheanunnaki Avatar
    millertheanunnaki

    @ Well Well & Consequences Observing Blogger. October 23, 2017 at 10:51 AM

    With the decriminalization of prostitution (legalization to meet Hal’s premature expectations) men would not have any reason to sexually harass women.

    Business will be strictly business and there would be no need for haggling over the price charged.

    All payments to be made in advance with no refunds for whatever cause of poor performance by either party to the contract; โ€˜oralโ€™ or otherwise.


  43. @Whitehill October 23, 2017 at 12:08 AM “A bajan male from the time he gets into high school would soon learn that this is the currency used mostly by female students.”

    I don’t understand.

    Would you please explain?

    Since a currency is something which is used as a medium of exchange, how can it be used mostly by females? Are you telling me that females are exchanging sexual currency among themselves?


  44. @Whitehill October 23, 2017 at 12:08 AM “Barbados has always had a culture of its black women of a certain age whether on the job or not, who use sex as their currency.”

    Looka don’t mek me havta call names now.

    But a young friend of mine “a black woman of a certain age” to wit under the age of 25 [and as beautiful as Lupita Nyong’o] had reason to do business with a noted white business in this country a few weeks ago. The first thing the big white middle aged married man [with a picture of wife and children on his desk] asked her out on a date.

    She had to mek him know his place. Tell I hear to spend money wid you, NOT to eat dinner or sex wid you.

    You want me to call names now?

    Otherwise haul your a@@, and tek ya mout offa black Bajan women of all ages.


  45. Then people ask why black women so aggressive?

    We have to be aggressive in order to keep you white dicks out of our private spaces.

    You tink it easy being a black woman?

    Especially a young, beautiful, well educated, hard working, black woman who is trying to make her way in the world or WORK by MERIT?

    Haul do.


  46. @Jeff Cumberbatch October 23, 2017 at 6:07 AM “inappropriate touching”

    Professor, why you calling it inappropriate touching?

    It is sexual assault.

    If I show up at UWI, and I am only 10 minutes from UWI right now, and touch you on your penis is it inappropriate touching? Or it is sexual assault?

    Call it what is is. Sexual Assault. We can’t fix the problem if we continue to use nicey, nicey, Sunday School words.


  47. @Whitehill October 23, 2017 at 12:08 AM “Why is sexual harrassment in the work place being made to appear that bajan women are saints.”

    This Bajan woman was a virginal saint when she was sexually assaulted on her first job, by a man old enough to be her grandfather.

    And all I went there to do was a fair day’s work for a fair day’s pay.


  48. Sorry Professor. I see that you were quoting Aaron Mahabir.


  49. @Hal Austin October 23, 2017 at 7:00 AM “Black men are considered by the mainstream feminist movement as being irredeemably sexist.”

    Then the mainstream feminist movement is wrong, wrong, wrong.

    Most of the black people in the Americas and in Europe too have some white DNA. That white DNA was coerced into the vaginas of black women by WHITE MEN during the 200+ years of slavery, and continued right into the post slavery period, and continues

    It was NOT black men raping white women. That is a MYTH.

    It was WHITE MEN RAPING BLACK WOMEN.

    Let this truth be known.

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